Queer dating can be confusing. If a man and a woman spend time one on one, there’s often an unspoken implication that it’s a date. But if you’re planning to hang out with a cutie who’s closer to your end of gender spectrum, how do you know if it’s a date or just a friendly catch up? Take our scientifically tested chart and see! We highly recommend printing out a copy and keeping it on hand for referencing.